boys.

ha! I'd never thought I'd actually blog about this (because I never thought needed too), but after four sessions of what some would call "informative guidance," I think differently. So every Monday for the past month, I've been getting advice about boy-girl/dating relationships. I honestly went for the sake of curiosity and maybe some insight on how I could prepare myself for something, if, I don't know, God wanted to do a number on me coz I've been bad. I didn't know what to expect from attending, but after leaving every night, I felt reassured. So in the end, maybe I just wanted some closure on some of the doubts that I had. 

to talk about the topic of dating, I don't ever think I'd want to date for the sake of experience (I'd like to think my "inexperience" is a trait within itself), but just the thought of "hey, I'm not gonna last with him.." or "I knew it from the get go" kills me already. I don't think my partner would want that (nor would I), so why bother? Obviously, it happens and there are always more than two sides of the story. But for a simple girl like me (ha!), too much heartache and stress won't achieve anything.

so, one thing I gathered from the sessions is that, you shouldn't give yourself crap about how longingly will wait for the one, because he (or she, for those who are playing along) is out there. And when it happens, I hope that you both go on an amazing journey discovering your relationship with Christ. One of major fallouts of relationships, is the lack of communication, reading people (even the closest people around you) can be way too presumptuous, so having a steady head as well as a heart full of love is what I think gives you some foundation and ground. But, come on, I'm not qualified to be giving advice on relationships.

hopefully, I'd like to see the people who were really seeking for advice throughout the month, one day sit on that panel, happy as they'll ever be.